Us with God

An almanac for the soul

Field guide · Terrain · “You prepare a table before me… my cup overflows”

Us with Godand Marriage

Forecast: shared weather, sunny and stormy by turns, with room under the umbrella for three.

Four tired ways to walk

Each has some truth in it. None of them is the whole story.

Under GodSheep that hide from the Shepherd

Marriage is a duty, and I’d better perform it correctly or God will be upset.

Over GodSheep that know the way

Follow the five principles for a godly marriage, and it will work.

From GodSheep that follow the grass

God, give me the marriage I deserve.

For GodSheep trying to be the sheepdog

We’re a ministry team first. Our marriage is for the mission.

With God · the way home

Marriage is two people learning to be with God, together.

From the beginning, God said it is not good for us to be alone (Gen 2:18). Marriage is one way he answers that, and friendship, family, and church are others. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken (Eccl 4:12), and the third strand is him. Paul called marriage a picture of Christ and the church (Eph 5:31–32), so every marriage points to a love bigger than itself. Whether your marriage is thriving, hurting, ended, or never began, that love is yours.

Where the Shepherd isJesus did his first sign at a wedding, quietly keeping the celebration going (John 2:1–11).

For the road

Pray one short prayer for your spouse today, or for a couple you love.

Ask him

Lord, how can I love the people closest to me the way you love me?

Sit with

Gen 2:18Eccl 4:9–12Eph 5:31–321 Cor 13:4–7

Fellow travelers

People in Scripture who walked this ground before us.

  • Priscilla and Aquila made tents side by side and opened their home to the church (Acts 18:2–3).
  • Isaac married Rebekah and loved her, and he was comforted after his mother’s death (Gen 24:67).

Keep walking

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